webmaster on Mar 11th 2010 11:07 am edit
To be in a relationship before saying "I love you" (and actually meaning it...) without freaking them out. (I'm not asking for my benefit, I've already said it, it's just all my friends say that's waaaaay too soon. I'm not gonna tell you how soon though... well, I will later.)
P.S. I'm 15 (so I'm talking about like teen relationships, not adult relationships.) It depends. My bf said it to me the first week we went out. i think that if you say it and you mean it your fine dont let people change that if you really love them dont be afrad to show your emotions the relationship works better that wayOnce you get someWell .. i think whenever u feel like saying it just say it .. i dont think there is any word like I Love You with a real mean to it .. bcuz everyone does be saying it ,, but to give u my advice and my opinion .. i think whenever u feel like u have a like on the person u can just start saying i like u than i love u .. but wait until them say it first but even so .. whenever i am in a relationship i does wait until the guy says it first but i never respond it ,, u just does say me too if u dont want them to be uncomfortable ok .. im 13 and i fell in love with my beautiful girlfriend after 2 months. early for some, late for others. thats for the feeling to be at its fullblown, for love to start probably like a monthWell b*tch, whenever a girl says that to me, i know it's time for me to move on to the next one. the right time is when you don't have to ask that question anymore.
there is no "time" it has nothing to do with that. it has to be with your emotionsI would say around two months, maybe one month if you're absolutely serious about this guy. But two months is how long I'd wait, at least.My ex started saying it like the second week, and I just would be like ok, and he expected me to say I love you back...I just wasn't going to, it's not like I did. By like the 3rd month I finally started saying it back but not all the time.When I was 15, my boyfriend told me he loved me after we'd dated about two weeks. I said 'Okay." Five years later, we're married, been together the whole time, and expecting our first child. At the time, we had no idea what love was. It was just something you were suppose to say. Turns out it really was love. Well, it developed into love. Point is, there isn't a correct time, you could be with someone for years, and one morning you're gonna wake up and think "wow, I love him.' Up until that point, they are just words.Lol... your going to think Im crazy but I got married my wonderful hubby after only three weeks. So it kind of slipped out when I was telling him bye about a weeks earlier. I think its just when the time is right. You'll know in your heart when its ready but guys freak easy at that age so maybe about three months before they wouldn't just run away! The good thing is that he may stay around longer to try to get some since you said you love him he thinks he has a better chance at getting it! Well, since it's a teen relationship it won't last anyway so just say it whenever. It don't really matter. Well, this feels awkward. But you need to make sure you completely mean it. You also need to make sure he (I'm pretty sure you're a girl) is actually into you, too. Don't just go frolicking around telling him you love him. (Once again, I hope you're a girl)follow your heart 3 months, idk... whenever u feel its right. ive been dating my bf for over 3 yrs and were 14 and 16 and weve always said i love u, we meant it after like a year though, lolz! =Dwell usually u have 2 wait atleast more den a month...but if u mean it den yu dnt have 2 worry wat ur frends dink and plus if ur bf loves u bak dats even perfect..but dnt show em dat u love em so much dat ur gonna let em take over u bkuz sumtimes by sayin dat ur givin dem power over u or yu'll freek dem out l0l..but if u fell dat u trully love em den tell ur frends dat nd dat dey shuld understand yuusually the guy says it first..........wait till he says itMy best friend's girlfriend said I love you and he broke up with her.
It scares him, haha....
So be careful.well you have to follow your first instinct.Whenever you feel that you don't have to ask this question.first and foremost, follow your instinct :) aka. the wonderful emotions we are all packed with.
IMO when you really know the guy...in estimate time period (not the same for everyone) is i guess 3 or so months...has to be months, not weeks. when you really know who you are with and whether they feel the same way. by then the boy should have settled down enough to be alright by you telling him how you feel.A year or more.
You have to really know that person and truly mean what you say :)
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