I don't believe my girlfriend anymore?

admin on Mar 12th 2010 02:12 pm edit

  • Sorry in advance for all the reading...

    Well me and my girlfriend broke up around a month ago after being together for a year. I admit it was cuz of me cuz the job I have now is a joke and I rarely get paid and I tried looking for a new job but they're all looking for someone better than me so after a while I got tired of it and gave up looking. Well my girlfriend got sick of it cuz shes an hour away so i could rarely go see her. Even tho we're broken up, we still tell people were together cuz she says she's willing to wait for me.

    The thing is that, before we broke up, there was this guy at school that would try to talk to her once in a while but she would just text him back once or twice but not really talk to him out of respect for me. But after we broke up she felt like she couldnt talk to me sometimes, im not much of a talker but i do listen, so she started talking to him and i didnt know about it at the time but i had a really bad feeling that she was talking to another guy. So about a week after she started talking to him we went somewhere and when we got back I really wanted to find out for sure cuz while we were gone she kept texting someone every couple of minutes while i was right there. So when she went to the bathroom I looked in her phone (before anyone sayts thats wrong, she has looked thru my phone before too) and i see texts from some guy saying he wants to hold her and another one where he called her sweetie. I got mad but what got me more mad was that she didnt even want to answer me when i asked her if she likes him. It hurt me bad cuz me and her always call each other sweetie and when we first got together i would always tell her that i miss her and i just wanna hold her tight. I told her that It would have been different if she just told me about it. I would still be mad but just at myself, not her.

    So since then i havent been able to trust her at all, I dont believe a thing she says whenever shes texting cuz the other day i was over at her house again and all night she would be getting texts and it seemed just like that one day when i looked thru her phone, but she says its her friend but i dont believe it for one second. I know its that one guy but i just cant prove it and i dont wanna look in her phone again. I keep asking her about it but she says that they dont talk anymore, but I can tell by the look in her face that she is hiding something from me. All i want from her is to be honest with me and i have told her that so many times throughout our relationship.

    I just dont know what to do cuz I dont trust her anymore but I know for a fact that once I finally fix things and can actually afford to go see her more than just once every couple of weeks, she will be ready to get back together and stop talking to whomever. The thing is im really scared that im not gonna fix things in time. Does anybody have any idea what else I can do?


  • DAMN boy!!! u way frustrated!!....i think u shud tell her u luked thru her phone and that u saw the msg and that u want to kno if she still cares for u.if she is really sincere then no reason to doubt her.ut dont follow that advice....u shud jus talk to her and tell her how well ur doing and also that it wouldnt be long b4 u guys can get back 2gether. .....but like i said b4, ... dont listen to me.


  • Don't worry, she loves you and you love her and that's what matters. Don't forget a gift.


  • Bro this whole thing is about trust and i know it's hard.....but you have to believe, you have to trust. Trust builds and breaks relationships. It will only break if you let it break or give it reason too....i know this too well. I had a girl friend for two years and we broke up cuz she couldn't trust me anymore....come to find out two weeks later she was dating one of my best friends, where did the trust go? All i can say bro is ask her honestly, don't get mad, hold it in but tell her you have to know tell her you want to believe but you have to know she still trusts you too.....remember "Everything happens for a reason" never forget that statement.


  • guy she's moved on. focus on getting your situation together. tell her you need time to heal your wounded ego.

    two wrongs don't make a right. you looked in her phone for confirmation. you helped sow the seed of doubt. she disrespected you by texting another guy while you were together. you already know what's up. you're not there for her-physically mentally or financially. she needs mor than a listener. she wants and needs support and conversation. let it go. move on.

    find strenght within...heal yourself







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